RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:10 am

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That's because most guys are easily pussy-whipped. Don't blame teh sluts!

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:18 am

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^^^because most men are desperate for pussy so will do anything they want and they know it. So excuse for being rude.

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:19 am

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yeah mongo, how long did it take you to get over it?

coz right now i'm pondering everyday and can't stop, and it sucks sooo hard!

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:31 am

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There is no set time for getting over any breakup, it depends on the individual, and how involved you were etc.

There's no easy answer and it's going to hurt, there's no way around it except to just accept it. In time you'll be wondering what you were so upset about, you'll meet someone else and nothing else will matter.

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:53 am

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I still ponder here and there. I just stopped all contact with her. Deleted Numbers, emails etc.

Took me about 5 months to get over it. Plus a police charge for fucking her car up when I found out she left mefor my "mate". But yeah. No set time, its just the way you go about it.

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 10:54 am

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god i didnt come here to turn anyone against you this is my last post ok ..ill never come back on here for your sake ok.. dont ring me and abuse me anymore!

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 12:05 pm

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i phoned you lastnight t osee if you were happy, cos you FINALLY got what you wanted me gone and your boyfriend back, jeepers

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 12:07 pm

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Omg how many times do i have to tell you its not what i want..you got me balling my eyes out

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 12:44 pm

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RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 12:51 pm

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okay dude's and dudettes, i have read through the discussion and have a few things to say: No1: 'sailor' you obviously still care for your ex or you wouldn't be on the net airying out your dirty laundry, No2: if a girl is a 'slut' as you put it, then that makes you a 'scrub', No3: if you both take a look at the bigger picture then you will realise that maybe this break-up is a good thing, and that it leaves doors open, gives you breathing space and lets you reassess your wants and needs so that when you finally do hook up with someone you yourself will know what you want.
As for girlfriends hooking up with your mates, cousins,etc that is a NO NO NO!!!and that in my opinion is what makes a girl a slut, that is where GOOD girls like me get branded because of other girls antics. All girls are not like that, and it just tells me you haven't found the ONE yet, maybe this might help when your feeling lonely and want to ring her:

Somewhere, there's someone
That dreams of your smile
And when in your presence
Thinks life is worthwhile
So remember its true
Whenever your blue
Somewhere, someone
Is thinking of you.

I hope this gives you something to think about.
PS- my partner and I have been together for 14 years(no I ain't a granny)I met him when he was 17 and I was 20, and with trust we have survived our relationship and have 3 children-14, 12 and a 6 year old. We now live in Australia but lived in Kaitaia hence 'realfarnorth'

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 1:11 pm

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Thanx "realfarnorth" the thing is me and salior havnt gone out for ages..i saw him 2 weeks ago..and we were suposed to be "friends" thats what we both agreed on because i had come out of a real hard relationship. and now i talk to my ex and "salior" now thinks im a slut
While i was with him 2 weeks ago he was hitting on chicks..and that alright for him to do, so it seems hes allowed to do that, but im not allowed to be friends with my ex, its really unfair

By the way people me and salior live 8 hours away from each other. i believe we maintained a pretty good relationship in the period of time we went out, its really hard to have a long distant relationship

Ive told him i want to be friends, but no matter what i do, it never makes him happy

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 1:28 pm

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you maybe "friends" now with you ex but how long will that last huh? how many times have yous been jus "freinds" then oneday youre all errr we broke up, blah blah blah blah jus leave me alone ok. We can't maintain a friendship, i'm just preparring myself for when you go back to him for the millionth time...we have our own lives.....you wanna b "frends" with him and i jus wanna play music and party so yip, goodbye krazie

oh and realfarnorth i do kida care bout krazie....but i'm trying hard to get over all my feelings for her and so far it's working i guess

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 2:42 pm

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This has to be done I suppose:

www.nzdating.com

Find someone ffs

This is a Music website. Not "Dr Phil's Love help line".

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 3:41 pm

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It all basically comes down to RESPECT!!!!
If the man you are with does not show you respect, whether it be with you or around others then you need to let him know what he has done so that the issue can be addressed. Hitting on other 'chicks' sailor aint the way to keep the one you already have or had.
And then there's TRUST!!!!
Sailor if you do not trust your (now ex) speaking to HER ex then as far as I'm concerned the relationship was DOOMED from the start. I still keep in contact with my ex's, and my partner keeps in contact with his ex's it is just a part of growing with one another. It means getting to know the person on a deeper level. What happens sailor if you get a new girlfriend and she tells you that she still talks to her ex? If your going to pull the JEALOUSY act everytime you hook up with a chick then you will end up very lonely.Do you talk to your ex's?. Be true to yourself and don't jump into bed with the next chick you meet, get to know her first, then trust and respect will follow. Keep busy and do things that you've never done before, you never know, you might just meet the ONE, and if and when you do remember T & R her like she's the only chick left on earth.
Crayzie you also have issues to deal with and you are right not to drag your (now ex) into it. But unfortunately he can not see that. Have time for yourself and look after No1, stand your ground girlfriend and stick to your beliefs,hopes and dreams. Always be true to yourself, because usually no one else is. Do to others as you would like them to do for you.
I am not here to DOWN anyone, just shed a bit of reality on the situation,without trust and respect there is no love, its just sex.

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 4:37 pm

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What i think is that we shudnt judge either of them. you cant judge by what ppl say coz thers two sides to every story i think they just needa sort it out between them. if ur angry that sailor was slagging you off on the net jeezus dont have a cry get him back worse and if ur not happy with the way she acts sailor then dont talk to her. u dont need to say shit bout her just erase her from ur memory and move on. its a bit pathetic in both cases that you care enough bout each other to do this shit. and girl we all have shitty relationships and shitty times but thats no excuse and if u get pissed off with sailor tryna tell you what to do dont talk to him. its not that hard.

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 4:43 pm

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and slagging off sluts in genral? look if thats wat a chick wants to do then go to it. when a guy sleeps round hese kool but when a chick does shes a slut? and the other chicks that slag sluts off are usually the 1s that cant get laid. im not for sluts but u dont needa be meen to them coz most the time they get fucked over by guys as well... (this prolly sounds like im a slut but im not but i no slutty chicks and they are kool as and way less bitchy about every1 else!)

RE: don't ex gfs just piss you off?
Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 11:16 am

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^^ I also think some guys are just plain intimidated by girls who think about/enjoy sex as much as males... or scared they're gonna get compared to all their other ex-fucks.